Because these women know I have written this exact text to them today and understand the purpose behind it, I am free to use their given names.

This was a simple text to Miss Eva this morning, sharing the products added from Miss Linda’s business. Her response was used mightily today! #WOJOY is my favorite new acronym. 💜✝️💜

It still needs to be “cleaned up” to make it read “clean” to others. I am NOT sharing Linda’s beautiful and extensive responses. They are, however, confirmation of everything God put on my heart. it took four plus hours to rewrite and send to Linda and Eva. It’s now 8:42 pm, my hubby is soon to be out of the tub.

Obedience requires I share what the Holy Spirit ensured I wrote down today.

Linda, yay for the prices all being accurate! Super excited to share all your goodies and get more sold for you. I believe God has big things planned for you, Eva and myself to do together. No clue what those things may be, only that it would be a sin for me to not write it down the best I can. Lord, please help this flow in a way which makes sense to all three of us and honors YOU at every turn.

No rush or long response required. I do have one simple question at the very end…how should I refer to your late husband?

First things first, I praise God for gentle corrections, along with everything else. I see now why my excited utterances to Eva could not be sent to her three- plus hours ago. I was meant to wrestle with it for hours and be gently corrected by my First Husband. It was meant to be that I send it to you at the same time.

Now that we’ve established it takes me a long time to process awesomeness, I must write out a Godversation which includes your husband, Linda. You are ONE in my heart and I don’t even know the name you called him. I flipped to Psalm 65-66 this morning and fireworks ensued! .



The first thing I did after studying commentaries on Psalm 65 and 66 was to add 11 categories of products for Parham Farms. I shared the excitement with Eva and the same screenshot my husband sent you, Linda.

Eva texted something about our hearts for widows and orphans. I am certain we touched on the “widows and orphans theme”, last night, Linda. Eva and I have gone deep diving into the topic together. You are the first “technically a widow” person to have products in our shop. The Holy Spirit loves to teach me things through His People and I’ve learned a ton from you both already! Thank you, both.

As one does, I like to give nicknames to make things clear. Instead of explaining a thousand times what I mean by #WOJOY, explaining it once where we are on the same page is ideal. Lots of words to start, but far less words later.

At the heart, #WOJOY is about the joy which comes from the only religion God finds worthy…that which serves widows and orphans of many varieties. know I did not get into #WOJOY with either of you yet. How ? Eva’s text was the catalyst God used to put #WOJOY on my heart and WO(E) to anyone who chooses to not hear or see or causes any little one to stumble. #WOJOY was born today into our first mutual Godversation. When God gives me a word, I must share it. 💜✝️💜

So, #WOJOY is ablaze from Eva’s sweet text. Instantly, I googled, ” survived by Linda Parham” to learn your husband’s name. Powerful. My mamaw was 55 when she died, but it was 44 years ago this past May 8. Your husband would have been 44 this year….

May 8-July 8…Eva has heard countless God Moves Between May 8 and July 8. The Holy Spirit loves to give me “bookends” to remember what He has done.

I was shocked I did not ask his name yesterday- but we also had tons of stuff to go through and so forth. Make sense? But I don’t know if you called him Matthew, Matt, Keith or something else. So, please do share the best way for me to refer to your love. Feel free to talk about him and your favorite things that you miss. Like which was his favorite jelly? 💜

Weird or not…odd or God as our Eva says- the insta nudge obit said he passed June 30. My sister just celebrated her 60th June 30 and there are other powerful God stories tied to June 30. But I couldn’t send the message because it felt too long. lol. A lot like this one to you, NOW. 🤣

I was writing Eva a novel about the connections – and how I did not know what you called him. Matt, Matthew or Keith. It’s been hours and how every obit says June 28.

Today, I guess I need confirmation as to which date he passed and what name you most often called him. More specifically, what name would you like for me to call him?

Confirmation she called him Matt and he passed on June 28, not the June 30 date first returned to me.

Thank you, Father God, for constantly showing up and showing off for me. Thank you for slowing me down and teaching me so much through “”all my girls”.